12.18.2012

Pay It Forward



So... I've got a personal style blog and I take lots of pictures of myself. I write/talk about clothes, shoes, accessories, make-up, food, etc.; a lot of superficial stuff. And for a while I struggled with two seemingly very different  parts of myself. The part that loved that meaningless crap, and the part of me that cares (very deeply) about shit that matters. I was (mistakenly) under the impression that those things couldn't co-exist in the same person to the extent that I wanted them to... that somehow caring about things that don't "matter" delegitimizes the rest. That was a naive way of thinking. We (especially women) can care about all sorts of things, and the belief that you have to be one thing or the other only perpetuates a really crappy marginalized view of women. I will spare you the feminist rant I could go on right now, but I do want to take this "style" blog over tonight to showcase something other than shoes and accessories (and my mug). Let's discuss a pretty awesome concept: Pay It Forward. The holidays tend to bring out the best in most people; we greet strangers more readily, give more to charities, help those less fortunate than ourselves, etc. So... I thought that it would be cool to throw out some ideas/ little ways to brighten up someone's day; and if everyone who read this did just one of these in the next few days, that would be pretty rad. 




  • Open the door for someone.
  • Give a helping hand when you see someone carrying a lot of stuff.
  • Give a homeless person your leftovers from a restaurant you just ate from.
  • Purchase a couple of umbrellas, blankets, ponchos at a dollar store and keep it in your trunk – when it’s a rainy/cold day, find a person who needs it and give them one.
  • Give a lottery ticket to a stranger.
  • Leave anonymous thank you notes.
  • Put change in a vending machine.
  • Drop off a toy or game at a homeless shelter.
  • Pay for a  toll for the person behind you.
  • Send someone a small gift anonymously.
  • Drop off flowers at your friend or neighbor’s house.
  • Buy a meal for a homeless person.
  • Buy a movie ticket for the person behind you in line.
  • Pay for someone’s meal behind you at a fast-food drive-thru.
  • Write an inspirational note to someone who needs inspiration.
  • Send a card to someone in the military overseas.
  • Put something you no longer need on craigslist.org for free.
  • Drop off a toy or game at a hospital.
  • At the post office, leave some extra stamps at the stamp machine.
  • Buy a phone card and give to a homeless shelter for them to give to someone.
  • Take flowers to a hospital ward and give them to someone who hasn’t had any visitors.
  • Drop off teddy bear to police department to give to traumatized children.
  • Write letters of appreciation to groups who are helping the community, the environment, etc.
  • Go to a tourist spot and offer couples/families to take their pictures with their camera.
  • If you know someone who is having a hard time financially, pop $5, $10 or $20 in an envelope, disguise your writing or type the envelope, and mail it to them.
  • Write anonymous, loving post-its for strangers to find.
  • At a restaurant, pay for a table’s lunch or dinner anonymously.
  • Pay for someone’s groceries.
  • Volunteer your time at a non-profit organization.
  • Smile!
  • Acknowledge the cashier who’s helping you and genuinely ask them how they’re doing.
  • Wave back to children who wave at you.
  • Say hello.
  • Reach an item off a high shelf for someone.
  • Give up your seat to someone who needs it more.
  • Remove debris or other obstacles from a road or path.
  • If you arrive at a stop sign at the same time as another driver, let them go first.
  • Pay someone a compliment.
  • Help someone with their groceries or bags.
  • Offer to help an elderly neighbor with their household chores.
  • Call a friend randomly and let them know you’re thinking of them.

4 comments:

  1. I loved this. We need to think of these things daily.

    Bisous
    Suzanne

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  2. This is awesome, Melissa. Thanks so much for posting!!
    Whitley
    www.thequeencitystyle.com

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  3. Thank you, guys! And thanks for reading!!! MUUUUUCH love all the way around, Mamacitas!

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